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If you're overwhelmed on a daily basis and looking for a system to help you feel less resentment and more connection in your partnership, this course is for you.


Wondering how you can break the cycle of exhaustion, resentment, and burnout in your partnership and parenting? In this cohort, we'll assess your day-to-day to help you and your partner move away from resentment and disconnection, and toward the vision you want to create with your family.


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The Power of Partnership


This course is for co-parents, partners, and spouses. While you can take the course alone, we highly recommend you take it with your partner!


Starting to look together at the patterns and systems that aren't working in your household can help you transform those patterns.

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From Chaos to Calm in 4 Steps


The Chaos to Calm course is broken into four live classes, with tools that you and your partner can use in between classes.

  • Module 1: The Power of Now (Grounding & Visioning)
  • Module 2: Assessing Your Household
  • Modules 3 & 4: Putting Your Vision into Practice

Live classes will occur twice a month for two months, beginning in July 2022.

You and your partner can access each recording after the live session is complete.


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Module 1:
The Power of Now

Often we feel a sense of embarrassment, or even shame, if our partnerships and households aren't working as we hope they would. This segment will unpack why your experience is more common than you think, and how to take small steps to move toward the partnership and household you want to see.

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Module 2:
Assessing Your Household

This segment will discuss the power of assessing both your and your partner's perspective on how things are going right now. Even a lack of a system is a pattern that can be explored. You'll walk away from this segment with a complete assessment of where your household is now, and where you want to go next.

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Modules 3 & 4:
Putting it into Practice

In the last two segments of the course, we'll explore simple tools that you and your partner can implement, even when you're crunched for time. These tools will lay the foundation for living the vision you have for your family.

Hi, I'm Katie. đź‘‹


I'm a lawyer and social worker with over a decade of experience helping teams solve tough problems. And I have a passion for helping parents function more like great teams.

As a parent of two young children born during the pandemic, I deeply understand the chaos, isolation, and sometimes even hopelessness of working parenthood in the modern era.

As founder of the Undivide, I help parenting partners function as high-performing teams.

I work to help these parenting teams overhaul their household systems and “declutter the mental load” so that they have more time to breathe and live their values, instead of just survive each hour and day.

I can't wait for you to join us in the Chaos to Calm cohort!






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